Thursday, March 24, 2011

ok...now that I just had a melt down.....here is what I normally FOCUS on.....

MAYA ANGELOU'S BEST POEM EVER 

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..

a youth she's content to leave behind....
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .......

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..

a feeling of control over her destiny...
how to fall in love without losing herself..


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship....


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW....

when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .

whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...


I WILL ACCOMPLISH with SHIPPING MY PAINT....ok...I'm not quite calm.



3 comments:

Amber said...

I LOVE that poem! I really think those are words to live by BUT as women, we tend to think we can do it all, all the time! We're dingbats!
I hope you're calm(er) now. :)
xo, Amber

Cheryl ~ Casual Cottage Chic said...

Life has its up and downs. But life does go on! Live and learn, is my motto ;-)

Courtney ~ French Country Cottage said...

Well, my goodness!! I have to say I am loving this post! lol! :) I am so glad you stopped by my blog and left me a comment so that I could find you! I have actually seen several blog friends using chalk paint-it always looks fantastic and I would love to try it sometime. I would love to meet with you or chat with you about things - I am following you along now~ Maybe I will see you in April at Tattered House!! Drop me an email if you would like- frenchnestmarket@gmail.com ~ how sweet of Vintage Begonia to connect us!! :)